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earthboundspiritualist:

bring-me-2-wonderland:

No matter what type of blog you have, if you don’t reblog this for your followers or anyother person in need, you’re just a heartless human being.

I may not have much to say but I will listen.

please, I need some stories.

I can’t even help myself, but if you need someone, fuck everything I am here and I won’t judge you

please do

please dooooooooo i won’t judge you

Anonymous said:

um hi so i'm starting to get worried... all of my friends either have boyfriends or boys like them. im like the only one who doesnt... i feel like no boys like me... all they do is stare at me... like when im not looking. They all go up and talk to my friends but not me. I'm 14 and I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend. Isn't this the age where you're supposed to start dating??

Oh darling I know how that feels. It feels like all my friends are getting looked at, what about me? But hunny the time will come and soon you will have to sort through which ones to chose! Trust me you have PLENTY of time to find boyfriends and it might even get to the point where you might be so overwhelmed with boys you will tell them no! It will happen, you just have to give it time and trust in yourself as a person. Confidence is an awesome turn on love! So just be true to yourself, have fun, and don’t sweat the stuff that you can’t control. It will happen when it’s meant to happen :) I promise.
-Cat

Anonymous said:

I'm scared. I'm just scared.

Shhhh don’t be scared darling! What are you afraid of? Please list everything you’ve ever wanted to tell someone. List out all of your hopes wants and dreams. :)
-Cat

Anonymous said:

Im done tonight I'm ending it i know I'm never going to get anywhere in life I'm not smart enough I'm not pretty enough i know as a matter of fact no one wants me here not my family an no friends I'm alone in this world i have no one and i can't wait to die i haven't figured out how I'm gonna Do it but I know it's tonight I can't do this anymore

Darling darling darling anon, no no no. I know you are so very sad and it may feel as if you aren’t going to get anywhere in life, but guess what darling, you can predict the future. You have to give yourself a chance. Suicide doesn’t give you a chance. It only ends the time for you to find a solution to all of your problems. I’m sorry you feel that you have no one and that you feel alone but the truth is you are never alone darling, you are more than welcome to come talk to any one of us any time of the day :) You are more than welcome to come to my personal blog as well and message me and if you even want to we can exchange numbers and text :) You are not alone in this world darling and there are people out there who would really want to talk to you. You have to give them that chance!!! Think about it! I am a person behind a computer screen, typing this to you, right now. I care and I’m sure there are people out there who would, given the opportunity, care about you too, but you have to give them that chance :)

-Cat<3

Anonymous said:

Well, he said it was because she couldn't get over how much time us two spent together and how their relationship was awkward and silent. He was saying to me at the reservoir, that is mum said to him 'It's a shame that you don't get with her' which made me quite happy, and he was basically saying that he trusts me and hasn't felt this close to anyone before, and he can be his true self.

My dear anon I’m pretty sure he is totally into you! He sounds really interested and since you have feelings things are already different between you two! I think you should go for it. You’ll never know until you try!
-Cat

Anonymous said:

Remember the girl who messaged about liking her best friend, but he has a bitch of a girlfriend who he's not happy with? Well yeah. He broke up with her, and I thought I'd cleared my mind of all feelings for him, and we were hanging out by the reservoir today, and we sat so close to each other and basically opened up. It was so nice, and I think he may have feelings for me? I don't want to bring it up and put our friendship at risk, even though we're so close and I think we'd last.

Oh my gosh oh my gosh! Thank you so much for keeping us updated! I do remember! Wow that’s so great! Was there any reason that be broke up with her specifically? And it sounds like he’s pretty interested in you too. Has he dropped any hints or said anything that made you believe so? -Cat

Anonymous said:

My anxiety is so bad now. I was diagnosed with agoraphobia and it wasn't that bad i would have panic attacks when going out into crowded public places but that was all. Now if I even think about going outside I get a panic attack. I feel so crazy.

From what I understand, agoraphobia is an anxiety disorder which specifically has to do with having a fear of being in an environment in which you cannot escape from. This is what I am going to go off of but please tell me if I am wrong dear. 

You are not crazy, you have a disorder. This is something you can work on and work through and get through. Its okay to not be okay, it doesnt make you crazy. Through medication and therapy, you will be able to face these fears and anxiety causing situations/thoughts. There is hope, you just have to hold onto it and believe that you will get better, because you will. It is important to find ways to calm yourself down when you feel a panic attack coming on and when you are having a panic attack. You need to find what works for you. Its going to be a slow process, but you WILL get there. Take things one day at a time. Today is the only day that matters. Yesterday is over and tomorrow hasnt happened yet. Just focus on what you can do today. 

Stay strong

Bri